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So my ex who gave me herpes has got into a new relationship and i know he has not told her what he has, do you think i should warn her or stay out of it? All i know is i would have been very grateful if someone had warned me but i also dont want to come across as a bitter?

  • Asked by Anonymous in Herpes Oct 18, 2018
  • Posted on Nov 13, 2018

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  • Posted on Dec 02, 2018


    It is wrong for you to tell her but it is right for your ex tell her, therefore make him do it. Tell your ex that he is to tell her and if he won't you will.

  • Posted on Nov 04, 2018


    I would tell her, wouldn't you want somebody to give you a heads up before you picked this restricted life

  • Posted on Oct 29, 2018


    I understand wanting to do the right thing but I would stay out of it because unfortunately you can tell someone and the won't believe you. It is too easy for him to make you look like the bad guy and not take responsibility. If you don't mind the possibility that either one of them could say you are the one with it and they don't have it and expose you.

  • Posted on Oct 18, 2018


    *as a bitter ex

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